When my brother moved to the city for work, he knew two people there.
In the first month he worked, ate and watched films on his phone.
He told me on the phone that a city of nine million people can be .
Then he made a small rule for himself: say yes to every for three months.
He went to a 's wedding, a football match and a boring meeting about .
At the meeting he met a man who runs a Saturday morning market for food.
My brother now helps at that market twice a month, and he knows fifty people there.
He also a football team of men who are all over thirty and slow.
He says a city gives you nothing; you must ask it for everything.
His advice for new people: the first six months are work, and after that the city becomes home.